Thursday, April 2, 2009

angry

ok, so i am very very very angry right now. i have forced dylan into hiding (ok, he is sentenced to his bedroom for the night tv priveleges are not revoked at this time). i picked him up from school only to find that his glasses are broken...again. only this time i don't think it is fixable. the frame is snapped in two and one of the lenses has popped out. my insurances only covers 1 pair per year so this is gonna cost me big time i just know it. and i yelled at him. i really really yelled at him. and he tried to hide them first, then lied about what happened and had the nerve to laugh when i yelled at another driver...honestly that was misdirected anger cuz i was yelling at everyone by that point. do you wanna know how the glasses got broken? it doesn't matter cuz i'm gonna relay it anyway. he was outside on the playground while at his after school program and put the glasses in his pocket. where was the case i found myself asking...in the gym, inside his backpack. un-fucking-believable! and people say he's just a little boy. that is not an excuse, there are kids out there younger than he is who take care of their shit, he can start to be more responsible too. so yeah...i'm pretty angry still. if i could i would just get him lazer eye surgery and be done with the whole mess...but i can't

4 comments:

  1. whoa. you gotta relax Katie. Yes they are expensive, but they are just glasses. When he breaks stuff or ruins it or whatever, you need to NOT REPLACE IT. i am talking about toys, movies etc. He has no sense of responsiblity for his stuff because its always just replaced. Its how we learned...

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  2. i don't replace toys and movies and stuff like that. once it's gone, it's gone. but glasses he needs otherwise the school could say i am neglecting him. i really blame the afterschool program in a way because he is only a kis and needs help remembering and that is where is glasses have been broken twice in the last month and a half since he got his glasses.

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  3. have you talked to the people at new day? i know he needs them, and maybe he will remember after getting in trouble this time.

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